Keeping Christmas
by Henry Van Dyke
The 2.5-minute read below was originally published in 1905 by Charles Scribner’s Sons.
Whether or not you celebrate Christmas, it’s an inspiring reminder to make that holiday spirit an all-the-time thing.
We revised a couple of words from men to people and the Bethlehem time reference from nineteen hundred years to two thousand years. We also broke up the paragraphs a bit differently.
Imagine if we all made this a weekly read.
If you like it, please be sure to share it with others!
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It is a good thing to observe Christmas day. The mere marking of times and seasons, when people agree to stop work and make merry together, is a wise and wholesome custom. It helps one to feel the supremacy of the common life over the individual life. It reminds a man to set his own little watch, now and then, by the great clock of humanity which runs on sun time.
But there is a better thing than the observance of Christmas day, and that is, keeping Christmas.
Are you willing to forget what you have done for other people, and to remember what other people have done for you?
To ignore what the world owes you, and to think what you owe the world; to put your rights in the background, and your duties in the middle distance, and your chances to do a little more than your duty in the foreground; to see that your fellow-people are just as real as you are, and try to look behind their faces to their hearts, hungry for joy; to own that probably the only good reason for your existence is not what you are going to get out of life, but what you are going to give to life; to close your book of complaints against the management of the universe, and look around you for a place where you can sow a few seeds of happiness – are you willing to do these things even for a day?
Then you can keep Christmas.
Are you willing to stoop down and consider the needs and the desires of little children; to remember the weakness and loneliness of people who are growing old?
To stop asking how much your friends love you, and ask yourself whether you love them enough; to bear in mind the things that other people have to bear on their hearts; to try to understand what those who live in the same house with you really want, without waiting for them to tell you; to trim your lamp so that it will give more light and less smoke, and to carry it in front so that your shadow will fall behind you; to make a grave for your ugly thoughts, and a garden for kindly feelings, with the gate open – are you willing to do these things even for a day?
Then you can keep Christmas.
Are you willing to believe that love is the strongest thing in the world?
Stronger than hate, stronger than evil, stronger than death – and that the blessed life which began in Bethlehem two thousand years ago is the image and brightness of the Eternal Love?
Then you can keep Christmas.
And if you keep it for a day, why not always?
But you can never keep it alone.

Ted says:
Needed to remind us. True about us all. Blessed for one and all.
December 24, 2012
Matt McMurry says:
Your greatest gift this Christmas. . . . . . . . JESUS!
Love, God
December 15, 2012
Raul says:
Very true. Merry Christmas to all who read this. God bless you and Give More. Thanks Sam.
Raúl
Orlando, Fl
December 12, 2012
Hannah says:
wao…..blessings n thanks
December 11, 2012
Micahel Watson says:
This is an especially warm thought to share throughout
the holiday season. Then keep it and live it throughout
the rest of the year.
Michael
December 10, 2012
Ardath says:
Thanks, Sam, for sharing this with us..What a wonderful world it would be if we would follow this message. I have for many years posted by my desk another quote from Henry Van Dyke — “Use the talents you possess; for the woods would be very silent if no birds sang except the best.”
December 10, 2012
Bill Graifer says:
Nice read! I am at the Opryland hotel now, where you took this picture, it is truly breathtaking to experience the way they decorate here for the holidays!
December 10, 2012
Sam says:
Great catch, Mary! Thanks! It should be revised across everything by 9:15 EST.
Thanks for reading and sharing, Everyone!
December 10, 2012
Mary K says:
There is a phrase within the print-out that has me confused—”to make a greave for your ugly thoughts.” It seems to be a mixed metaphor. I had to look up the definition of “greave” which apparently is leg armor. Would I want to make leg armor for my ugly thoughts? Or would a “grave” be better? Is “greave” in the original?
Just musing.
December 10, 2012
Missy says:
Beautiful! Thank you for sharing with us! Merry Christmas and God Bless!
December 10, 2012
Ronald P. Dobransky, CPSS says:
Sam………always enjoy your inspirations. I just wanted to pass along a favorite sentimental thought of mine….truly something to think about during this Holiday Season.
I received this from a friend several years ago and it still remains very special to me.
I hope you Enjoy it as well.
During this Holiday Season…..
Mend a quarrel. Seek out a forgotten friend. Dismiss suspicion, and replace it with trust. Write a love letter. Share some treasure. Give a soft answer. Encourage youth. Manifest your loyalty in word and deed.
Keep a promise. Find the time. Forego a grudge. Forgive an enemy.
Listen. Apologize if you are wrong. Try to understand. Flout envy.
Examine your demands on others. Think of your neighbor first. Be appreciative. Be kind and gentle. Laugh a little. Laugh a little more.
Be deserving of the confidence of others. Extend your hand to a stranger and the warmth of your heart to a child. Find beauty in all that surrounds you. Speak your love. Speak it again. Speak it still once more!! Shout it out!!
Wishing you beautiful moments and cherished memories throughout this Joyous Holiday Season and a New Year filled with Good Heath and Prosperity.
December 10, 2012
shirl says:
Thank You Much. Just what we all need
December 9, 2012
Kruck says:
Hmmm….thank you!
December 9, 2012
DeeDel says:
Totally awesome read!!!!! I wish everyone in the world could and would read and put in effect this message. We all should be in this world to make GOOD things happen for other people.
December 6, 2012
Mary D. says:
Wow!! This is a wonderful, inspiring message. Thank you for sharing. I will pass it on.
December 5, 2012
Carolyn says:
Thank you for sharing this message; it’s one we all need to hear.
December 4, 2012
Frank Warner says:
Thank you Sam! Love this wonderful message.
Merry Christmas!!!
Thanks for all the great stuff especially love you people!
Frank Warner fa salon
December 4, 2012
Ken Bates says:
Wow, Sam. A fantastic and simple treatise on humility and I love it!
January 28, 2012